I've said it before, Declan has been amazing with Carrig. From day one. He has loved his little brother since the minute he saw him and for me that has been so cool to see. Even cooler is watching Carrig search all over for his big brother the second he hears his voice.
I was talking to a very good friend the day before I gave birth to carrig and I was just expressing about every concern I had......she's very much the calm voice I need in my life so it stands to reason that she was able to talk me off the ledge I was teetering on that day. She has three kids, two of whom are very close in age and she told me "to this day, I believe with all of my heart that the minute graham was born, gini became a better person and vice versa." - or something like that. The jist being, they have completed each others lives and made each other better. Making their lives better. And I would do anything on earth to make Declan's life better so if that means giving him a little brother - so be it :)
I prayed that night that the same would be true with Declan and Carrig and I think, so far, this is the case. I have so many hopes and dreams for their future and without projecting too much of that onto them, I do just hope they remain as tight as they are right now, only 7 weeks in. I hope forever that decky will run the minute he wakes up to give c a hug and kiss and I hope c will bend his head in all types of odd directions so he can see his brother and smile..........
I love them so much. And I am so glad they love each other.
- Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone